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What you mad about???

Posted on May 31, 2020 at 9:35 PM Comments comments (0)

It's okay to be angry and let people know what your angry about and what you want them to do about it. How you handle it can either get change and great respect or cause more damage to the situation. I have a opinion and I have a plan and a vision. Most seem to just have a angry opinion. We need to have solutions that we all partake in and enforce. We need to do all the things for others that we can do for ourselves. Less talking and more doing after the talk...

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Shade on Shade

Posted on May 30, 2020 at 10:10 PM Comments comments (0)

As much as I'd like to think my feeling don't control me sometimes I'm dead wrong. Its never a day I don't have to think through a feeling because of my past perception of a situation or person. Once I learned that people places and things were not always what I believed they were. (Explaination) I believed that as a father,  I was responsible for all the bad things that happen in my childrens lives. I was taught this at a young age and responded like a str...

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Its that time again. VOTE

Posted on May 26, 2020 at 9:20 PM Comments comments (0)

Its time to Vote. No more blaa blaa blaa its time to Vote I dont care what you heard. If you don't speak up who will. No whole lotta rap, get everybody you can to vote, then stand on your vote in principle and deed. We deserve the best just as much as everyone else but if we settle for less thats what we might get. Its time to vote for ourselves. Fathers teach and persuade your people to VOTE!!! 

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We are not the children

Posted on May 25, 2020 at 9:35 PM Comments comments (0)

Sometimes my young adults (children) have a problem expressing their feelings when they feel wronged or hurt. I let them know not to let their feeling rule them even when they are right. Its not just how you feel but how you deal with the feeling, so it does'nt make matters worst now or in the future. Young people are so angry  and waiting for a outlet and plenty of their peers push them to a bad end thinking its being grown or self sufficient. But beware what you reap you...

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They backbone us when life kicks our back out

Posted on May 24, 2020 at 10:45 PM Comments comments (0)

 

What I learned. When my life warrented a good woman she was my backbone when life kicked my back out. Father dont ever think that the mother of you children will never pop up again. You can never be a mom not even on you best dad days. Remember that all children (unless a tradegy) have two parents. Its hard for any single parent to raise children alone. So give your children a future hope for them and their mom, not you. Then your children will respect yo...

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Check our self

Posted on May 23, 2020 at 10:15 PM Comments comments (0)

The last time I was in court supporting a father and his baby daugther the question came up again. What does a competent father look like in the eyes of the courts? I see fathers with ever issue and barrier I can imagine, and some I have also had to work through myself. I was ask today what was my organizations model (meaning how does a father look in my organizations eyes) of a serviced father and family. For a moment it through me, becasue I'm  so use to being seen and t...

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Only in a perfect world

Posted on May 20, 2020 at 10:40 PM Comments comments (0)

Pandemic, unemployment, broken relationships, homelessness, long distance, Gateway Moms and Child support and custoty issues, low self esteem and all other sort of barriers only make fatherhood very difficult. Some of us never had fathers or good moms, some of us never had the example of any thing positive. Of course these are not excusses and if you feel they are, then can you put yourself in their shoes? Look Dads we get it but, we don't quit or give in, we must continue to b...

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Lets help out

Posted on May 19, 2020 at 7:35 PM Comments comments (0)

I have been talking to several fathers about how they are handling the Covid 19 situation with school age children,  and what they are doing that could help other fathers. Please leave a short Video on messenger or my gmail or email @ [email protected] yahoo.com  or  [email protected] or messenger 267-819-6447. We would love to share your video on our website. Also the most inspiring and creative Video will recieve a prize.

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Just like the rest.

Posted on May 18, 2020 at 9:25 PM Comments comments (0)

I really enjoy and take helping Fathers and their families in whatever I can seriously. No I dont have alot of money but time, wisdom, and experience comes with the process if your serious about you life and children. I will always be in this, first because I am blessed to be a father secondly because whoever is reading this has the same if not more blessings. I reach out every chance I get, because I know some father out there can use a word or deed to get them...

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My children my life

Posted on May 15, 2020 at 8:45 PM Comments comments (0)

In my life when I did'nt do right by my children things did'nt go right for me. I found out that the more I did to raise my children the right way the bigger blessings and oppurtunities came my way. I learned how to be patient and more content when times got rough. I learned from dads and moms, I used all the positive info and experience I could find. Working and being a single parent, going to school, church, shopping, clinic, their school, facing their mother,...

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