Can't you see that ?
If we want our children to respect us we have to show them respect first hand. Listen to them and not always cut them off or scream and shout at them when they fail or just don't understand something. Show them how to be respectful by being respectful to them. 1Peter 2:17. Also you have been called to be fruitful and all things work together for the good of them that love God, To them who are called according to his purpose Rom 8:28. Hallelujah God Bless.