Commitment takes work

I like my cake and I want to eat it to but everything in moderation. Translation I can have what I like at the proper time in the right amount. Whatever it is,  thats when it's best for me. This goes to say all relationships flow better when there is proper expression and acceptance from both parties. In a perfect world right this can work. Lets say there are children in the middle of this relationship how are things going to be equal. Now here is where the work comes in. First it is no longer I, it's  we,  and not she or he(blame game). First,  want for your spouse/significant other what God wants for you Peace, Love and Joy. Then model this process to the children easy right LOL. Commitment takes work and when the work is done we have victory.

1. Pick a time of day for 15mins or more and talk without any distractions (none)(each day for 7 days)

2.Do something together just the two of you.(each day for 7 days)

3. Show eachother physical(touching) attention 3 times a day for seven days ( ideas!!!!)(each day for 7days)

4. Do something totally unexpected to show your appreciation ( each day for 7 days). Email me the results. If you really do it you can see a long term change for good and the children will love you guys for doing the work. I believe God will bless you.

jthreat1@yahoo.com.  Challenge by Touchinglives.org