Competence is of God.
How do we go on??? We trust in God and lean on him when we feel we can't go on. 2Cor 1:3 says he will give us strenght, 2Cor 3:5 He is our competence, Did you read that, If we Trust him he will give us strenght and the competence ( the abillity to be successful) in all giood works. When it comes to what God calls me to do in this life i need all the help i can get and we all can use help. Come on!!!, we are raising children to love and honor God in these troubled time WE NEED GOD'S HELP. There were so many days and nights I just knew I was not able, but God saw different. If your in deep and can't let go. Ask God to step in and take over, He's waiting and antiscipating so except his love and Glory in your life and watch him turn all the things you battle with to dust and give you a love and new perspective you can stand on. HALLELUJAH God Bless.