"For things to change we have to change"

The fathers in action motto is " For things to change, we have to change." Real simple but for some very complicated. One of my mentors just told me today, all I can do is expose a father to the vision and keep on being productive,  and maybe according to his desire or need to get the solution to his delema he will tag along and then he might stay. I understand that I have to remember how I started out also. One child, scared as hell,  but full of pride not the good kind to much to get help so I now I have some regrets but I never give up( in God's Time) my son knows I love him. I just learned to continue being the best father I can with his sisters and brothers. We make mistakes but if we dont change we keep making the same mistakes,  until we do things wont change. The first change I made was to get help because every child I have needed different kinds of support and needs. I pray a lot and serve my family and get all the respect and love I can handle and it turned my pride into humbleness God bless.