Help those who are willing to help themselves not ( help themselves)

When you offer to help,  remember to help those who are willing to help themselves. By doing the necesary things to make it as easy as possible for you to help them so they can prosper. Do not let people just help themselvs to your kindness and leave you hanging. Yes God says help all that you can but please don't let them abuse you. You can even go the extra mile,  but don't be afraid to draw the line and not let your kindness be taken for weakness. I am inclined to show mercy and favor on whoever God chooses me too. I sometimes get hurt because of the things they just take for granted like freindship and genuine Love and support. But the wisdom in me says leave them where they are and move on, I'm moving on to peace and prosperity mentally, spiritually and physically. Sometimes we want whats good for them more than they want it for themselves. Thank God for his mercy and Grace. Hallelujah in Jesus name.