Our questions and our struggle are exceptable

I have a close friend who is like most of us, asking God the most vital questions in her life. How is this helping me, and how long does this have to keep going on, when will  I get what you promised that peace that security that love for me and my family. Yes we as fathers sometimes don't see the battle that the mother goes thru to help and in some cases build a family of Gods blessing. Some of us fathers miss the whole thing. Then she will secure all the promises God has for her and you,  father will miss all the blessings if you are not there representing God and your families best interest. Hallelujah God Bless